the abuser's desire to abuse is not created by the child - it is there before the child appears
Breaking Free: Help For Survivors Of Child Sexual AbuseIt was all fine until the girls started drinking. (Everything is always fine up until that point.)
Rite Of Passage: Memoirs of a Survivor of the Pickup CommunityWe were not actually famous, I have to add. People were just drunk.
Rite Of Passage: Memoirs of a Survivor of the Pickup Community...in my wildest, most indulgent dreams, we only hear about sexual assault & abuse in history books.
Dear Sister: Letters From Survivors of Sexual ViolenceOnce you learn to be happy, you won’t tolerate being around people who make you feel anything less.
The Hope Handbook for Survivors: The Seach for Personal Growth