For most of Western civilization low sexual desire has been considered a goal rather than a problem.
Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed RelationshipsMake it your goal to employ the sweet speech that marks you as a wife after God's own heart.
A Wife After God's Own HeartAchieving a goal requires endurance and sacrifices beyond limitations.
From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with "The Divine Presence"