The system is like a vampire where you must give it permission to enter through your obedience.
Simple Reminders: Inspiration for Living Your Best LifeBreak the character and independence of your man and you will have an obedient trooper.
Out of the Night: The Memoir of Richard Julius Herman Krebs alias Jan ValtinObedience may have its uses, but it is no substitute for willing, uncoerced co-operation.
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