Forgiving yourself means that you give up on your hope that the past will be different.
Dare to Forgive: The Power of Letting Go & Moving onyou can't hold on and let go to (at the sametime) of you worthless, unhappy, failing relationship
Escaping from the Victim or Volunteer Role in Your RelationshipThe opposite of play is not work—the opposite of play is depression.
The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are