Pain and suffering that are not transformed are usually projected onto others.
Adam's Return: The Five Promises of Male InitiationArt suffers the moment other people start paying for it.
Ignore Everybody: and 39 Other Keys to CreativityIt is when suffering finds a voice and sets our nerves quivering that this pity comes troubling us.
The Island of Dr. MoreauA universal truth of bicycling is this - pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
It's All About the Bike: The Pursuit of Happiness on Two Wheels