This stuff of a past not worthily lived is also medicine.
The Fruitful Darkness: A Journey Through Buddhist Practice and Tribal WisdomIt follows that I must accept myself for what I am before I can deliberately change it.
The Buddhist Way Of LifeThe entire teaching of Buddhism can be summed up in this way: Nothing is worth holding on to.
Living Dharma: Teachings of Twelve Buddhist Masters...it is often more difficult to remember to be mindful than to be mindful itself. (p. 47)
The Engaged Spiritual Life: A Buddhist Approach to Transforming Ourselves and the World