Develop the habit of initiating change. You'll be better prepared for whatever comes your way.
Postcards and Pearls: Life Lessons from Solo Moments on the RoadForget it. Never explain; never apologize. You can either write posthumously or you can't.
Prepared for the Worst: Selected Essays and Minority ReportsTreat every moment as your last. It is not preparation for something else.
Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice