About Gary L. Thomas: Gary L. Thomas is a game designer who has worked primarily on role-playing games.
Any mature, spiritually sensitive view of marriage must be built on the foundation of mature love rather than romanticism. But this immediately casts us into a countercultural pursuit.
A defeatist attitude kills almost as many marriages as do affairs.
A good marriage isn't something you find; it's something you make.
Being "married for a mission" can revitalize a lot of marriages in which the partners think they suffer from a lack of compatibility; my suspicion is that many of these couples actually suffer from a lack of purpose.