We tell ourselves that intimacy (and marriage) takes two people who are willing to work at it-but, unfortunately, we rarely have the slightest inkling of our "job" assignments in this project.
Our mistakes and regrets are not barriers to becoming who we can be; they are a necessary ingredient.
You don't your way to a new way of living. You your way to a new way of thinking.
For most of Western civilization low sexual desire has been considered a goal rather than a problem.
