Anyone can see that intending and not acting when we can is not really intending, and loving and not doing good when we can is not really loving.
There are very few, very fuckin' few people, Kia, who get what's precious in this world. They work their asses off for pure shit and think they'd fight and die to keep it. You don't fight and die for shit. You fight and die for things that matter. Yo...
So yourself, just don't yourself unless you're certain he deserves that gift.
Wherever you are, however you got there, if it's good, you're meant to be there either because you earned it or life led you there and you were smart enough to hold on.